From Fear Reaction to Confident Creation

Transformational Perinatal Coaches see you as the expert in your own life. We facilitate clarity and help you cultivate agency and autonomy while you go through the most transformative period in human life.   


Leaving a Long-Lasting Impact on Your Life

Welcome and congratulations on seeking a Perinatal Coach to empower you throughout your childbearing experience. The badge you clicked to arrive at this page recognizes the provider you are considering hiring as a Birth Coach Method-certified Transformational Birth Support Coach. Our graduates focus on empowering you to participate, show up, and engage in your childbearing process with a sense of autonomy and agency, confident in your knowledge and capabilities. They coach you using well-established coaching strategies, principles, and exercises that are field-specific to help expectant and new parents achieve their healthy, satisfying, and empowering experiences. 

Why Hire a Transformational Peinatal Coach?

Childbearing facilitates reflection. Our changing bodies and the baby growing inside our bellies reveal our magnificence and insecurities in equal measure.

Although labeled "Natural experience," giving birth and becoming a parent is the most challenging human experience there is. Matrescence, the becoming of a mother, is scary. It's a hormone-dominant, body-altering, irreversible, confidence-challenging, and identity-shifting transformation. 

The cultural and medical circumstances surrounding us from about seven weeks of pregnancy are fear-provoking, causing us to experience internal resistance to encounter what the process brings our way.

In my experience, fear is associated with contraction, anxiety, confusion, judgment, shame, withdrawal, bitterness, darkness, and ultimately death (the mother of all fears); all are in contrast with the physical and emotional expansion of childbearing. 

But this journey, which involves significant physical, emotional, and psychological change, marking a transition from one stage of life to another, often brings a new level of insight, resilience, and empathy. Therefore, it calls for profound internal work that goes unrecognized.  We can befriend the transformation, with its sensations, unpredictability, and unknown aspects, only through the authentic discovery of who we are and what we resist internally.  Once we embrace that childbirth calls us to wake up, grow up, and show up, our mindset will be ready to embrace our body's full potential and shift from fear reaction to conscious creation and taking charge throughout childbearing. 

Transformational Birth Support Coaches recognize the internal work and help you embrace the transformation and your body's full potential. 

 

The Benefits of Hiring a Transformational Perinatal Coach?

  • Your coach is an active listener and partner with no agenda but to facilitate your smooth journey. 
  • Your coach will ask powerful questions that facilitate clarity about your beliefs, attitudes, and vision to help you actualize your desired childbearing experiences.
  • Your coach's highest goal is to help you cultivate confidence so that you can make choices with agency and autonomy.  
  • Transformational birth support coaches help you overcome fear, internal resistance, and personal challenges throughout the process. 
  • Your coach will provide you with resources and help you adopt new perspectives that can better serve you in achieving your goals.
  • Your coach will facilitate alignment between your beliefs, goals, and actions. This alignment will help you get closer to your desired experience.
  • Your coach will help you generate strong convictions and develop a sense of internal authority and agency to advocate for yourself and ensure the individualization of care.    
  • Your coach will help you take the steps needed to achieve your desired childbearing experience. 

I can see clearly now that my clients get in tune with their own inner wisdom when I ask them questions instead of giving suggestions. It is so beautiful to see how empowering that is for the woman; that she carries the answer inside of her. Even though I know a lot about pregnancy, birth, and motherhood, she is still the one who knows her body, her values and her baby best. I love that I can support her in making decisions that align with her heart..." 



Hire that Transformational Perinatal Coach!

And there you have it. We wouldn't do what we do if we didn't feel our graduates have the additional skills to help you go through pregnancy and childbirth with a lot more clarity and confidence, and enjoy healthier and more satisfying experiences. Therefore we encourage you to go back and take the next step by calling the birth professional whose website you found our badge on and get acquainted.
And please take with you many blessings from all of us at Birth Coach Method!

To YOUR Healthy and Positive Experience!

Neri Life-Choma,

Founder and Trainer